Fixed #35356 -- Deferred self-referential foreign key fields adequately.

While refs #34612 surfaced issues with reverse one-to-one fields
deferrals, it missed that switching to storing remote fields would break
self-referential relationships.

This change switches to storing related objects in the select mask
instead of remote fields to prevent collisions when dealing with
self-referential relationships that might have a different directional
mask.

Despite fixing #21204 introduced a crash under some self-referential
deferral conditions, it was simply not working even before that as it
aggregated the sets of deferred fields by model.

Thanks Joshua van Besouw for the report and Mariusz Felisiak for the
review.

1 files changed, 4 insertions, 4 deletions

diff --git a/django/db/models/sql/compiler.py b/django/db/models/sql/compiler.py
index 676625df6f..7541817ba0 100644
--- a/django/db/models/sql/compiler.py
+++ b/django/db/models/sql/compiler.py
@@ -1253,21 +1253,21 @@ class SQLCompiler:
 
         if restricted:
             related_fields = [
-                (o.field, o.related_model)
+                (o, o.field, o.related_model)
                 for o in opts.related_objects
                 if o.field.unique and not o.many_to_many
             ]
-            for related_field, model in related_fields:
-                related_select_mask = select_mask.get(related_field) or {}
+            for related_object, related_field, model in related_fields:
                 if not select_related_descend(
                     related_field,
                     restricted,
                     requested,
-                    related_select_mask,
+                    select_mask,
                     reverse=True,
                 ):
                     continue
 
+                related_select_mask = select_mask.get(related_object) or {}
                 related_field_name = related_field.related_query_name()
                 fields_found.add(related_field_name)